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Kimberly Van Der Beek marked a family milestone this week while keeping her late husband close in memory. On March 26 she used Instagram Stories to honor their daughter Emilia’s 10th birthday and to share a private moment with fans still mourning the actor’s passing.
Kimberly’s Instagram tribute for Emilia’s 10th birthday
In a simple image posted to her Instagram Stories, Kimberly shared a photo of James Van Der Beek embracing their daughter. The snapshot captured a quiet, affectionate moment between father and child.
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Kimberly overlaid the photo with a tender message saying she missed him. The post arrived just weeks after the family said goodbye.
What happened to James Van Der Beek: illness and passing
The actor died on February 11 at age 48. He had been fighting stage III colorectal cancer.
When the family announced his death, they asked for privacy as they grieved. They also signaled that more details about his wishes and legacy would be shared in time.
James first revealed his diagnosis in November 2024. At that time he told reporters he had been managing the condition privately and that his family had been supporting him.
Family details and the children’s milestones
- Emilia — 10 years old
- Olivia — about 15 years old
- Annabel — about 12 years old
- Gwendolyn — about 7 years old
- Joshua — about 13 years old
- Jeremiah — about 4 years old
The family has continued marking birthdays and milestones amid mourning. For what would have been James’ 49th birthday on March 8, Emilia recorded a short video tribute that Kimberly posted.
Emilia’s message on coping after losing her dad
In the clip Emilia spoke directly about how she copes with grief. She urged others to speak out and share feelings rather than bottling them up.
She described talking to her father each day. She explains this helps her process loss and keeps their connection alive.
How Emilia says to get through a loss
- Speak to the person you miss, out loud if it helps.
- Allow yourself to cry and feel emotions.
- Tell family members how you feel to stay supported.
- Share memories and daily thoughts as a way to heal.
- Hold the belief they are at peace and free from pain.
Emilia shared that she believes her dad is watching over them and no longer suffering. That conviction gives her comfort.












