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- Current condition: what the family is saying
- Injuries, surgery and the recovery outlook
- What led to the hospitalization: the livestream and platform response
- Temporary custody and the children’s safety
- Family response and clearing up rumors
- Emotional care and next steps
- How the public can help and where to find support
Perez Hilton remains in the hospital after a traumatic episode earlier this month, and his sister, Barbara Lavandeira, has given a fresh update on his condition and on how his children are being cared for. Family members say the focus is on medical and emotional recovery, and they are shielding details of his injuries while rallying around his three young kids.
Current condition: what the family is saying
Barbara told reporters that Perez is still under inpatient care and is receiving treatment for multiple injuries. She emphasized that recovery will be gradual and carefully managed by medical professionals.
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He currently has no access to a phone, social media or the internet, Barbara said, noting the family’s priority is his healing rather than public updates. Visits so far have been limited, and the timeline for a discharge is uncertain.
When pressed about the specifics of his trauma, Barbara declined to share medical details publicly, calling them a private matter and asking for respect for the family’s privacy at this sensitive time.
Injuries, surgery and the recovery outlook
Family sources confirmed Perez underwent surgery after what they described as substantial blood loss and additional wounds sustained during the incident. Medical teams are coordinating both physical and mental health care.
- Perez remains hospitalized and under observation.
- Doctors are treating physical injuries and arranging psychiatric support.
- Family members say they will not rush his recovery or set artificial timelines.
Barbara stressed that the road ahead includes both medical rehabilitation and emotional care. She said the family is following clinicians’ guidance and is committed to ensuring Perez gets comprehensive support.
What led to the hospitalization: the livestream and platform response
The incident began Aug. 4, when Perez allegedly livestreamed acts of severe self-harm on TikTok. The stream continued for several minutes before it was stopped. TikTok has since suspended his account and acknowledged errors that allowed the broadcast to continue.
Social platforms and viewers raised alarm after the footage circulated. Family members hurried to the scene and later said those present took steps to protect the children from witnessing further trauma.
Temporary custody and the children’s safety
In the wake of the hospitalization, Perez’s mother, Teresita Lavandeira, petitioned for temporary custody of his three children. Court filings indicate Perez consented to the arrangement.
The children and who is caring for them
- Mario — 13 years old
- Mia — 11 years old
- Mayte — 8 years old
Barbara said their top priority is the children’s well-being. The grandmother is providing day-to-day care while the broader family supplies emotional support and professional help as needed.
“They’re trying to process something no child should have to face,” Barbara said, describing the family’s efforts to give the kids stability and privacy during a confusing time.
Family response and clearing up rumors
Barbara rejected circulating claims that she and her mother are seeking permanent custody or trying to remove the children from Perez long-term. The family framed the change as temporary and focused on safeguarding the youngsters while their father receives care.
She described their mother’s position as heartbreaking: a parent who wants to protect grandchildren and support her son at once. The family is coordinating visits, counseling and privacy protections to minimize further harm.
Emotional care and next steps
Medical teams are planning a course that includes physical rehabilitation and mental health treatment. Family members said any decisions about discharge or outpatient care will be made in consultation with Perez’s doctors.
Barbara declined to give a schedule for recovery, reiterating the importance of not rushing the process and ensuring Perez receives proper therapy and follow-up.
How the public can help and where to find support
The family asked for privacy and compassion as they navigate the aftermath. They urged the public to avoid spreading unverified reports that could compound the children’s distress.
If you or someone you know is struggling, resources are available. You can call or text 988, or visit 988lifeline.org for crisis support and mental health help.
